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Writer's pictureMarcus Fard

Trusting That Funny Feeling: Listening to Your Gut in Self-Defense Scenarios


Imagine this: You're walking to your car after a late-night shift. The parking lot is dimly lit, and as you approach your vehicle, you notice a man lingering nearby. Something feels off, but you brush it aside. You don't want to appear paranoid or rude, so you continue walking.


Cut to a news segment. A reporter interviews a woman who narrowly escaped a dangerous situation. The woman, visibly shaken, recounts her experience. "I had a bad feeling about it," she says. "That's when I decided to take action and leave." Her gut feeling saved her.


That gut feeling is more than just an uneasy sensation—it's your mind picking up on subconscious cues and trying to protect you. It's your body's early warning system, honed by millions of years of evolution, alerting you to potential danger.


Recognizing the Cues


Subtle cues can signal that someone is about to engage in violence. These include:

- Sudden Changes in Behavior: Someone who was previously relaxed suddenly becomes tense or agitated.

- Invasion of Personal Space: The person starts moving closer to you without a clear reason.

- Unusual Silence or Staring: They may stop talking abruptly or fixate their gaze on you.

- Clenched Fists or Jaw: Physical signs of anger or preparation for a physical attack.

- Scanning the Area: The person looks around as if checking if they are being watched or planning an escape route.


The Importance of Trusting Your Gut

Statistics and survivor accounts consistently show that people who survive violent encounters often had an initial gut feeling that something was wrong. Conversely, those who ignored their intuition often found themselves in perilous situations. The key difference is that those who act on their instincts have a greater chance of survival.


When to Trust Your Intuition

1. When Something Feels Off: Even if you can't pinpoint why, trust that uneasy feeling.

2. When Normal Behavior Changes: If someone’s behavior suddenly shifts, take it as a potential warning.

3. When You Feel Watched: If you sense someone is observing you too closely, it’s time to be alert.

4. In Isolated Situations: Trust your gut even more when you are alone or in unfamiliar territory.



Your intuition is a powerful tool in your self-defense arsenal. At Legacy Wing Chun, we teach you not only physical techniques but also how to hone your instincts and recognize potential threats. Trusting your gut could be the difference between safety and danger.


Join us at Legacy Wing Chun and learn to listen to that funny feeling—your life might depend on it.

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